No

 No.

Not Yet.

Next one.

I'm starting to realize that these words have a different meaning then I originally thought. I'm starting to realize they are synonymous with these words.

Take a different path.

Channel your energy differently.

There is something better. 

I might fail again and again, but in the end I can't lose my agency. I might encounter roadblock after roadblock, but nothing will stop me. It will simply redirect me, and I will find other ways to fulfill my purpose. I am stronger than what stands in my way, the one who created me didn't create me to give up.

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